The Cost of Being Too Nice, Plus Small “Asshole” Moves That Don’t Make You… an Asshole


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Stress Management for Women, By A Woman

Hello Reader,

Since it seems like only The Successful Assholes get ahead, while I was Being Too Nice, I borrowed a few of their strategies to clean up my people-pleasing habits.

Does that make me... asshole?

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Jennifer uses science-backed tools & strategies to help you build mental strength and resilience. If burnout, over-scheduling, or carrying the mental load for everyone else is making your days feel overwhelming, Jennifer can help. Stress gets in your way of thinking clearly and making good decisions. Learn to build mental strength and resilience so you can manage your stress and stay focused on your goals. (Specializes in women entrepreneurs, small business owners, and leaders.)

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